Name change after marriage
Hello everyone,
I have recently got married to my polish husband and I added his surname to mine
I transcribed my marriage in my embassy
Recently I requested name change also from my employer and I got surprised by the info that my name isn't changed in the PESEL register which is giving errors in the płatnik program ,so I asked them to keep it as my maiden name until I get this issue sorted out ,is there any risk in that?
Then when I started proceeding for name change we contacted the city hall and they told us that the name can't be changed until I change it on the passport,the only thing is that in my country we don't take the husband's family name we cannot change the family name ,we can just request to add -married to husband's family name- and it will take a BIG WHILE to do so and I don't know if the Polish system accept it also
If you had such experience could you please advise ? I am seriously thinking also to just go to registery office and request name change to before marriage but I also don't know if I can do such thing
Literally stuck in the middle and very confused what to do
Thanks for any advice or idea 💡