u/Truecrimejunkie1312

How do you come to terms with not having anymore kids? With our first child I had incompetent cervix, developed pre eclampsia, gave birth at 37 weeks, and we had a 4 day NICU stay. Our second I had incompetent cervix, gestational diabetes, severe pre eclampsia and gave birth at 34 weeks.

I want a daughter so bad. I want more kids. But my body cannot handle pregnancy. How do I come around to the idea of my life not being what I imagined and dream of? Am I selfish for thinking this? Maybe it’s the postpartum depression setting in…

How do you come to terms with not having anymore kids? With our first child I had incompetent cervix, developed pre eclampsia, gave birth at 37 weeks, and we had a 4 day NICU stay. Our second I had incompetent cervix, gestational diabetes, severe pre eclampsia and gave birth at 34 weeks.

I want a daughter so bad. I want more kids. But my body cannot handle pregnancy. How do I come around to the idea of my life not being what I imagined and dream of? Am I selfish for thinking this? Maybe it’s the postpartum depression setting in…