
| ✅ Leave Your Mess At Home | Tolani Akinola | 5/5 🍌 | 2026 📚read: 32 |
| Plot | Leave Your Mess At Home |
This covers the 4 Longe siblings Sola, Anjola, Ola and Karen and their parents. The kids are all first generation immigrants from Nigeria. Their parents trying to assimilate to America after immigrating from Nigeria. The story picks up with sola being a semi famous influencer, but being kicked out of the house by her mother for posting racy pictures, meanwhile Anjola is premed, Karen is figuring things out and Ola is a finance manager. The story follows their journey finding out that their childhood is greatly impacted by their controlling mother. After coming to grips with a family tragedy, they’re all forced to reconcile their complicated childhood. Especially Sola who has been their mother’s proverbial bogeyman for the majority of her life. The question is will they ever be able to repair their relationship or is it too late?
| Audiobook score | Leave Your Mess At Home | 4/5 🍌| | Read by: A'rese Emokpae |
Smooth like butter this was an amazing read so many emotions. What a good performance.
| Review | Leave Your Mess At Home | 5/5🍌|
This was definitely a hard read, so many emotions to unpack. I’m dealing with a traditional Nigerian household. I will say I had to put the book down a few times because reading the way that sola mother. Treated her maid my blood boil obviously it deals with different generations, cultural identity fitting within the black community. Systemic racism, LGBTQ. This was so rich and vibrant. The prose was amazing. This woman can write her ass off. It’s not for the fainted heart. It really makes you question the world and each of the characters was flawed. Yet they brought such colors to the world. This was one of the best books of the year I’ve read yet and for being a debut novel, it was astoundingly deep. And does what all art should do makes you question things makes you see things from a viewpoint that may not be attainable. Shows you culture and how things aren’t as different as you may think trying to live up to your parents expectations. I would highly highly recommend this book.
I Banana Rating system |
1 🍌| Spoiled
2 🍌| Mushy
3 🍌| Average
4 🍌| Sweet
5 🍌| Perfectly Ripe