u/TheBigTonker

I (23f) am married to a Soldato (21m), and I am considering joining the thumb to spend more time with my husband. He currently can't speak as he cut his tongue off and I want to take care of him until we can gather enough money to replace it. However, I'm no good at fighting and I'd would feel bad for any superiors who would have to put up with me. I also feel like this is a big decision to be making on such a small whim.

I'd appreciate any advice.