I'd appreciate some advice
I've been trying giving Lilith offerings and have tried living life with her in it for about 5 months now. I go to YouTube comment sections on Lilith related videos, and see people comment about how quickly they heard her voice. One even commented about hearing her within a week. Another said a couple of minutes.
I've done two rituals (poorly done, admittedly, but I at least did them) too, continued focusing on her daily for a good 5 months. I feel her less and haven't heard from her either. In what way could I be failing that it's been taking me this long? Now I'm starting to feel her less, assuming I ever felt her at all. I thought just sharing my daily life with her and asking her to be with me through it, as well as my daily offerings would be enough.
I've been told one should take the long, dedicated route, and that invocations are more of a temporary fix. I am looking to have a long term connection with her, but I feel quite desperate at this point.
I would like your suggestions, on what I can do to get closer to Lilith. I'd love to hear from her, see her in dreams, but just feeling her presence is good enough for me.