Every area of your life is connected
For those who struggle with sp, have in mind that some beliefs that might show up through your specific person, might have nothing to do with relationships at all!!!
Everyone says fix your self concept ( such a vague terminology in my opinion), others interpret it as going to the gym or starting hobbies etc. I won't say that these don't work at all but please remember that all areas of your life are connected!!
Your beliefs/ state/ position you hold for you in relationship let's say with your parents or money isn't separated from your sp!
Let's say that you are still putting yourself in a state of being the unprotected or helpless child in front of your parents even if you are over 40. That state isn't seperated from some behaviours you see from sp, maybe they treat you poorly, maybe they cheated etc.
Of course someone will say that they can manifest something like money easily and something else like sp not so easily.
But it's not always that you don't feel chosen or loved!!!! That's the most common mistake I see here!!
Examine all areas of your life, examine how you stand in front of your family, how do you feel when someone gives you money, your relationship with your body, anything!
Everything is connected, try this as an alternative if nothing else has worked.