u/Sylveondex

So i am a closeted trans girlie [still a minor] and I want to ask: how do I distance myself from my parents and sister? One day, I am going to be a girl but my family won't be there for that. I know from their views that they won't support me or my life; so how I can make it less hurtful for them? Is there anything I can do to ensure that won't feel as guilty as they would have? I don't want to hurt them but I do want to live as myself and not him. I want to be a girl - if not in this country then some other - but i don't want them to feel as if they failed as parents nor do I want them to face social stigma