u/Swimming_Abroad

So following on from my previous post, I’ve now got 3 other men who have already asked to meet after just one day of message on the app. So from all the other responses this is not a red flag I’m learning. Also I’m standing firm on the phone number I’ve had another one also ask for that but have said not until we meet.

There is also request for date from guy whose wife died in September I’m not sure about that one he didn’t have it on his profile but his first response to me told me about this said he would take things slow if I wanted but also was asking straight away for a date this week. If I accept all I will have 4 men on the go during one week or so , I guess this is modern dating ! How to then filter them out ?

Matched with someone last night exchanged some chats he's just asked me for a breakfast date tomorrow morning - I have declined as I already have plans but I'm wondering if this is a red flag? thoughts? He's nice looking he seems ok so I far have suggested next week instead with intent to get to know him a bit better before then, he's agreed so we are on for next week. He also asked for my number - regarding that i have said i prefer to wait until met before we swap