u/Suspicious-Dark-7618

Have you ever passed HSV to a long term partner? I feel guilty despite doing everything right

I have GHSV, I disclosed to my now husband when we first met. He never saw it as a big deal, I think I’ve always been more upset about it than him. I never wanted him to contract it, but we both did the research and knew it was a possibility especially being in a long term relationship. I still took all the precautions, but he ended up contracting it about 2 years in. Even after he did get it, he was not upset at all, and he’s never been worried about it ever. I on the other hand feel so guilty, especially when he has an outbreak which he does a lot more than I did. Now that he does have it, I also get OBs more frequently and they use to stay in the same spot but now it jumps between 2 places. His also move around too. I just feel so bad he has to deal with this now too, even though he has never once made me feel bad about it but I still do 😭

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u/Suspicious-Dark-7618 — 6 days ago