u/Superb_Morning1023

My fiancé and I are quite introverted and are both nervous about the idea of having a ceremony in front of 80 people.
We have found a waterfront restaurant we like and are leaning towards having a private ceremony approx 11.30am followed by wider family and friends arriving at 12pm for a cocktail style reception until 4pm
We aren’t planning on having dancing and speeches , just a relaxed casual day with drinks and canapés.

Is this ok? I’m worried people may think this is rude or even boring.
We would love to have a stress free relaxed day. Any advice appreciated!