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I checked. literally pulled up the doc from the previous one. Eight of the twelve "key lessons" were word-for-word identical. different project, different team, same lessons.

So either we're really bad at learning, or the lessons-learned format produces a kind of output that doesn't actually translate into different behavior next time. I'm starting to think it's the second one.

We go through the motions. We write the doc. We file it in the same folder as the last one. nothing about how we plan the next project actually changes because the doc isn't read by anyone making the planning decisions.

Does anyone run retros in a way that the next project actually inherits something from them. not asking rhetorically. genuinely don't know what that looks like.

When I started, we had a phone, a notepad, and a shared spreadsheet. Not pretending it was better. But the reps actually sold.

Now every team I work with is running five or six subscriptions, and somehow the people I hired to sell are spending three hours a day being the glue between things that were never built to talk. Logging calls the dialer should have logged. Manually pausing sequences, the sequencer was supposed to pause. Reconciling one list against another.

A friend of mine called it the human Zapier problem. Cannot get the phrase out of my head.

Is anyone actually happy with how their stack runs? Not resigned to it. Happy.

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Not the problem. They're doing the problem. Same thing.

Pattern I keep seeing. An early-stage company has a gap that nobody on the team can fill: procurement, vendor stuff, something around data. The founder hires a senior to solve it.

The hire shows up. Starts mapping things out. Has real ideas about fixing it properly. Then a deadline hits, and they step in manually because that's the fastest way through. Three months later, they're doing it every week, and the actual fix has quietly moved to next quarter. Then the quarter after that.

The mistake isn't the hire. It's assuming someone good at a process can fix the process. They just end up running it.

Counted last weekend. Six. Six prospects who actually replied and we just got to them too slow. One of them told me straight up they went with a competitor because we took two weeks to circle back.

What kills me is the reps aren't lazy. They had other live threads, a sequencer firing on its own schedule, a CRM that doesn't tell you which conversation is hot right now. By the time anyone noticed the reply the window was already shut.

Is six a lot? Honestly don't know. Curious what your actual number is when you sit down and count.

Genuinely asking because I’m losing my mind a little.

How are you handling being the CEO, the SDR, the account exec, and the CRM admin all at the same time?

I’m in this right now and some days it feels like the actual work I’m supposed to be doing is the last thing I get to. I open my laptop and somehow two hours are gone before I’ve done anything that actually moves the needle. Half of it is just keeping everything synced and updated and not broken.

Is this just the reality of early stage or am I doing something wrong?