Need some friendship advice
Hello, I have been friends with a person in another country for 10 years. We message and video call and play online games all the time. They helped me deal with the passing of both my mother and father that happened the last few years.
So we became really close. But at the end of 2024 they had an old friend comeback into there life. And immediately started treating me poorly and always yelling at me. And almost stopped talking to me completely. Then messaged me and said I did nothing wrong but I wouldn't stop doing something.
Then deleted and blocked me and said they couldn't be my friend. But a week later messaged they was sorry and i did nothing wrong. And asked if I would be there friend still. Well everything was okay until recently.
They started acting weird again. And then earlier we was playing an online game. With some friends that she met and they had sent me friend requests weeks ago. Well she messaged me that she couldn't take the arguing my cousins have done in the background recently. Because I'm disabled and stay at my uncles right now. And I apologized to them multiple times and said i understand. And asked if I could just mute while they were around.
And was told no that wouldn't work. And that they wouldn't be playing online with me anymore for now. And that I could still message but they didn't know if they would reply or not. And when I asked if we were still friends? Was told stop making everything about me. Then later messaged that they wanted me to unfriend all of there friends I was friends with. Because they was there friends. Now I'm a 41 (M) and they are a 37 (F).
So its just odd. We both are dealing with anxiety and depression. But any advice would be most appreciated because the friendship means a lot to me. I just don't understand whats going on. Thank you