What would you do?
On again off again for 1 year. Me 39F him 40m. Relationship on and off one year
This is the fourth time you’ve dropped me off to work and when I’ve asked you to pick me up you tell me to get an uber and all of your stuff is gone and you have my car without any warning or conversation to be had. Then I call and call and call cause what else do I do in that situation only to be blocked or for you to be too busy or on the phone with someone else to answer the phone for an urgent issue.
On top of that you insist upon managing the funds so I give them to you trusting you with them knowing I need the funds to take care of things down here the bills and food and household needs. And I’m left with barely any money when you do that and I still have to meet my obligations like rent, phone, car, internet, car insurance. And incur the added expense of uber rides to work twice a day and have to have my urgent needs delivered. I have no one I can call or rely upon to assist me when I’m behind. It’s me and only me. I’ve been clear about that.
You left me without my car for 4 months all citing my behavior. How the heck am I supposed to be in this situation.
I don’t feel any love or care about me. No one who loves me could ever do these things to me. I gave you all I have to give.
Even before we got to Alabama and I was getting evicted from my room because I was allowing you to stay there you were with here in NY without a care in the world and all the weight was place on me.
You had it made. I worked. You did what you wanted to do all day. You were always the priority. I woke up and made you breakfast and made sure you had lunch while I worked to fuel your body. I came home you went to the gym in my car for 3-5 hours while I stayed home and provided dinner when you returned.
Am i asking too much?