A cure?? (Not rlly just something that might help)
Ok lowkey… idk if this will work for others and it might not even work for me fully but I had a thought. So last night I had one of those dreams where you date/ have a connection with someone super random (in my case this guy from high school) and I woke up feeling a crazy sense of loss because in the dream the love is so real. Not even sure if that’s relatable but if it is hear me out: it reminded me of limerence. Now I’m not currently in one of those phases and I don’t really have a person that I’m fixated on (I’m getting over someone so it’s still kinda there but not nearly as prominent in my brain), but it made me feel better to compare the two situations. Waking up from one of those dreams with a pit in your stomach realizing none of it was real, BUT you know for a fact it’s not real and also know the feeling will fade with time. I’ll try to apply that mindset if I ever feel limerence for another person again- because it’s essentially the same thing. I guess this only could work if you’ve experienced limerence a few times and know it eventually does go away no matter how big the pit in your stomach is. I might be bad at explaining this but hoping it could help someone bc I know how bad and honestly life ruining limerence can be