Do you find it rude if there is a cash bar at a wedding rather than an open bar?
Someone asked about this on a wedding subreddit, and the answer was overwhelmingly yes. Any form of cash bar is rude because you are inviting people to your event and it should be expected that nobody spends anything.
I am in the process of planning my wedding and was considering having a cash bar for the later portion of the night because weddings are already so expensive. However, once I saw that, I am rethinking that idea. But I also thought.. maybe it’s regional. Because I have been to weddings with a cash bar and not only did I not think it was rude, I just didn’t think about it at all. I would think it was rude if we didn’t even get a bottle of wine for free at tbe table but a cash bar after dinner seems reasonable to me. But I need more people’s opinions outside my own!
How do others in Winnipeg feel about a cash bar at a wedding?