Pls Read Caption!! Need Advice!!!
Second time posting on here, definitely going to delete this later, as I did with my first post because I don’t want this to live online forever. I’m set to undergo FFS early September of this year. I’ve been on HRT for 4 years, 7 months. Started blockers and E at the same time. Only recently started progesterone last year around… let’s say February. I will be having a trach shave, brow contouring, and chin contouring. I’ve started topical minoxidil for my hairline, and I also take a supplement called Biosil which is supposed to help my body naturally produce more collagen on its own. The minox and Biosil were recommended by my surgeon, and I have noticed a little hair sprouting but nothing major. I initially wanted to have hairline adjustment surgery but the surgeon advised against it. He says I have a good shape, just that my hair is very thin. He informed me that the scar for my brow reshaping could be hidden in my hairline, but only if I don’t have hairline adjustment. I also considered rhinoplasty but my surgeon was against that as well. What does everyone think?? I know I’m passable, but I do still get stares, people confronting me and saying that I’m a man pretending to be a woman, and some people just innocently assume I’m not trans, just a feminine boy who wants to be considered a male. I get called, “a boy with long hair” , “a little boy” , or just “he” , “him” , or “sir”. I feel like a majority of people are doing it innocently and they genuinely view me as just a boy, but it’s very frustrating as I usually wear makeup, have very long hair, have breasts, and I’m only 5”2’ and very skinny. I will add that there are times where I am clocked and the person becomes aggressive and will call me a slur or try and humiliate me in some way, but this is not the typical reaction. I truly believe my bone structure is giving me away. I feel I have no other option besides surgery. I will attach pics of my face and body. I added pics of me and my bf and me and my mom so that you can see what I look like in comparison to a cis man and a cis woman. I want honest opinions and any advice on what I can do other than surgery in the mean time to help more. **Bikini pics are the most recent from a few days ago** **YES I know my eyebrows are uneven but I sorta fixed them. 🤪😌 All the pics other than the ones of me in a bathing suit are months old at this point, and I grew my brows back out in an attempt to fix them, DONT DO ME IN THE COMMENTS because I already know they uneven asffff**