My partner is a convicted felon.
He finished with his transitional program a little while back and had nowhere to go so I had him move in with me. Circumstances changed, by no fault of ours, and we have to get out. I looked for a place for both of us at first but started running out of time so I found a place on my own. Our relationship has been complicated and I feel like I’ve been taking care of him more as a parent than a partner. He asked to keep stuff at my my place and if he can shower at my place regularly. I initially told him that was fine but now, after reflecting, feel like I really need to have my own space back and us go back to dating. He hasn’t been able to find a place because he isn’t making a lot of money right now so he isn’t sure where he’s going to go and I feel extremely guilty for everything, even though I know these are the consequences of his own actions. I guess I’m hoping for someone to understand where I’m coming from and help me to feel less awful about his situation while mine is going to be fine.