What did it take for you to have certainty you were clear?
I know people overemphasize negatives so naturally this reddit is filled with horror stories. What's tricky for my mind is you can't "see" that it's done, you must trust a lab test.
I am by nature a moderately paranoid person. Getting the operation tomorrow. Will follow all instructions, but I think I'm going to get multiple different tests after 3 months and probably (at least for a while) still wear condoms after being cleared. The posts of people getting clear results and then their partner getting pregnant are terrifying.
Does anyone test themselves once or twice a year? Did anyone else deal with these thoughts? What did it take to calm them? Does anyone get the operation and continue wearing condoms and pulling out the rest of their life? I may very well do this.