u/Similar_Yak1596

I was dating a pathological liar

On December 23rd 2025, I made a post asking if I were the asshole for not liking when my back then boyfriend spoke a language I didn't understand to women. I got roasted sooo hard by everyone on this app. My now ex recently used the post I made against me saying that I was crazy for asking such a thing from him and that everyone on Reddit said that I was crazy for not liking when he spoke Arabic to women.

Turns out I was right to feel this way. He ended up lying to me.

On October 2025, he got a phone call from his brother. He told me he was in China to "work for his dad". My ex asked him to get him some hoodies (l should've known it was a lie earlier since he never even got the hoodies). But his brother actually never went to china.

It makes me re think everything since we've been dating.

If he could lie about something so small what did even lie about. He is a pathological liar.

When I confronted him about this lie I didn't even insulted him, but he called me: "you crazy fuck", psycho bitch",

"Use your miniscule brain for once".

I didn't even insulted him once....

Even after I got insulted, I wished him to have a good life. I pray one day he can found Jesus so I can see Jesus living through him.

Also, one time my ex came to my work begging for me to leave mid shift to come with him at his place for the weekend (he lived 8 hours away from me). I refused so he stole my stuffs and was telling me that he was going to kidnap me. The next weekend, I told him

I was going to come and take my stuffs, but he refused, so he called the cops on me. He played the victim to them and told them I was crazy. He even said to me: "no one is going to believe you, you came in my car." That man is mentally insane. I hope no woman in this world is going to have to date that pathological liar and gaslighting manipulator.

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u/Similar_Yak1596 — 5 hours ago