u/Signal-Warning7212

thoughts on dealing with these people?

several coworkers are bitter divorced dads and others seem to be overall unhappy with life choices etc. constant bitching about everything and anything. its like they live for the drama and have nothing else in life except work. they try to suck you into drama that is work and non work related and when i resist, i am the bad guy. i want to have fun at work and cut and burn shit or put fires out

is it really just because i am young and newly permanent? does everyone become so bitter in this job?