How to not be depressed when going to clubs?
basically the title lol. I'm a 24yo brown guy living in Europe and every week, me and my friends go to the club to just enjoy and have some fun.
the problem is that everytime I go there, my friends get girls all the time and I'm just the guy who's basically dancing by himself or another guy who didn't get a girl too lol. don't get me wrong, I see nothing wrong with dancing with my mates but it gets really frustrating when that's your experience everytime you go to a club while your friends are consistently finding girls to dance with.
I'm an average looking guy who's like 5'9 and is fit and dress well (usually a black t-shirt with a denim jacket and denim pants and ofc good shoes). but man I must be doing something wrong coz nothing works for me.
my friends say just look at a girl and if she likes you, she'll look back and maybe give a sign like smile and then you can approach. but that somehow doesn't work for me. we have a guy in our group who doesn't have to do shit but girls will literally throw themselves at him. last week an older woman (must be in her 40s) came to my friend and said she thinks he's hot and he had to reject her.
I'm not looking for a relationship, just some fun and a nice evening for the weekend. usually I'm completely fine with just being with my boys but recently, I've started feeling jealous. jealous of my friends, of the other guys who can get the girls, etc.
I know it's not a healthy thing to do and I genuinely enjoy just going to the club to dance. but I guess I just need some help on how to navigate this thought process.
any help would be appreciated.