u/RunUndefined

We are retiring next year. I want to start going to the gym together, join a wine club, go to the parks (we live in Orlando), Staycation for a while, build a garden.. etc. When I ask my husband what he wants to do- he says rest. He really won't just imagine the possibilities with me, which is really what I want more than anything, not necessarily to do everything I wrote above. He has been at his one job 30 years. Should I be worried? How can I encourage him to dream a bit.