AITA FOR TELLING MY FRIEND I DIDN’T WANNA SHARE THINGS WITH HER AFTER SHE DISCLOSED HER HSV1 DIAGNOSIS
This is someone I just started being friends with we’ve only known each other for a couple weeks. We smoked together a handful of times and after the last time she reached out to me and let me know that she had just started to get an open outbreak on her lips. No problem I’m not going to judge. I just let her know going forward whenever we smoke together I’ll roll an extra blunt for her and we can smoke our own to avoid passing it to me. Girl flipped out on me. Basically told me I was a horrible friend and then I was judging her and I didn’t understand what I was talking about. Keep in mind I have several family members and friends that have HSV 1&2 and none of them have ever had any problem, not sharing things with somebody.
Not that this part really matters to the story, but I gave her clothes for her child because she didn’t have many. They didn’t even have a bed to sleep on and I bought her one. Also, this girl has openly admitted to me that she thinks Hitler was right and that the Jews were bad people. I even put that aside and kept being her friend and then she jumped down my throat that I asked to not to share things with her. Went on to tell me that our morals were too different and we couldn’t be friends and that I was a bad person. We both laughed and traded stories about what we like in bed even sent a couple pictures of what we have in our toy box. And then when she got mad at me about not wanting to share things with her, this is when she also brought up that she didn’t like that I talked about my sexual endeavors… OK that’s fine but didn’t really make much sense considering we both openly talked about it. It wasn’t like it was one-sided and I made her uncomfortable. Even reached out to My Husbands ex-wife and told her a bunch of made up things to try to cause issues and drama for us. Just wanted to vent about this because she made me seem like I was crazy and the meanest person in the world just for saying we shouldn’t share things going forward.