Coworker shaved of his eyebrows after I said I can’t spend all day with him
So my coworker is a loner in his 40s. We got along well but he was a bit clingy sometimes. He asked me a while ago to cook at my place and I refused. I kept the contact limited to office and public spaces. He went with me to Mass because I attend regularly. The Easter came and my hometown is 5h by train away from my job. He has no family, the grandma and uncle he used to live with died. So he said he wants to celebrate Easter with my family. I was in doubt but he said he already booked the hotel so I agreed upon taking him with me to mass at my hometown and a few meals with my parents and me at our house. The first day the train was delayed and he missed mass yet he still wanted to come to my house to eat. I said it was too late and we see eachother the next day anyways. So then he started to cry and send me voice messages of how desperate he was. I calmed him down. The next day he showed up at mass and had his eyebrows shaved off and an injury in his face close to the mouth. I said why he did it and he said he had an emotional outbursts. The next days he kept going to mass with me but was not nice towards the priest assistant and threw a coin at him. I said it was not ok and he wanted to come to my house anyways for the food. He then left the dinner table and came back with a piece he broke out of the toilette. I was so angry and my father drove him to the train. I haven’t headed from him since. Then I was asking a woman I know by name if she knows him well from the time she worked with him and she told me he did cut off the straps of her designer back and did regularly hide her keys and phone from her but people called her crazy for accusing him. That was a reason why he was place in my office which is next to the one of the woman. What is this situation ? I need advice