u/RelevantTelevision96

HELP ME - UC REVIEW - Ignorance is not bliss.

hi guys, 

I had my UC review today and it’s made me realise how much I need to get my head out of the sand. I am the person who is meant to enter my husbands earnings and support him with tax - I have been putting 0 each month because I can not face doing it. 

Today she asked about a payment which was for my husband - to an undeclared bank account, I panicked and lied nd then made my husband lie. 

I am sure it will be ok - but I don’t want to hide this anymore, I’ve been hiding it from my husband, kids and UC. 
I’m catastrophising that I will go to prison and my kids will be humiliated - how would I even tell them knowing I just lied? 
My husband is my carer (so double whammy) and I had one job! I haven’t done it and am now putting the whole burden on my family. 
it’s a years earning of £34,000 with expenses of approx £14,000. 
I feel like I can’t go on - please help!

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u/RelevantTelevision96 — 10 hours ago