Growing up and Islam
I recently turned 25, but I feel like only my body has grown physically, internally I still feel the same as I did when I was 15 or 16. I’m still scared to face the world, still dependent on my parents, and emotionally sensitive. I don’t feel street smart, nor do I have the so called skills to impress or influence people.
When I meet my friends, it feels like they received some message about “growing up” that I somehow missed. They’ve progressed in their careers and are now even planning to get married, while I still feel confused and afraid. It’s not about jealousy, it’s more about wondering why I still feel like a teenager inside.
Is it just me, or do others feel this way too?
Also, if you have any insight, what does the Qur’an or Islam say about growing up and maturity?
I’m sorry if this message feels scattered, I’m finding it hard to think clearly right now.