u/RandomFan1991

Kind of embarrassing to post this but, how do people even make friends in their mid-30s male? Like where do you actually go?

Long story short, medical stuff meant I never really got the chance to build a social life, even though I've lived in the Netherlands my whole life. So yeah, kind of starting from zero here.

Moving to Rotterdam next year which I guess is as good a time as any to figure this out. I'm pretty introverted, life is pretty monotonous at the moment, so I'm not exactly meeting people organically.

Anyone dealt with something similar? What worked for you?