Should I choose my partner’s college? or my preferred college?
Me and my girlfriend had been dating for 2.8 years now, we were highschool sweethearts and she’s 1 year older than me. Now, I just graduated from grade 12 and she’s in her 1st year college. She’s a nursing student and I too want to pursue nursing. It had been in my head if I should choose to go to her college or go to a different region (cebu) to study. Her college is in region 8, just 3 hours away from home. Im so confused whether I should choose the university in cebu or in our region. I already have an experience in grade 11 where I changed school which is dun rin yung city sa school nya ngayon, grade 12 pa sya nung grade 11 ako and nasa province pa sya nag aaral. I enrolled there sa city and it only took me 2 weeks to move back to my old school because I was crying every night dahil sa homesick, and I can say it was the best decision ever because my life was different when I came back home. So im thinking, kaya ko bang umalis sa hometown namin para mag aral sa malayo layo (cebu)? or stay lang ako dito sa region namin (3 hours away from home)? Madali lang talaga akong ma homesick and I feel like mag hihiwalay kami kung sa cebu ako mag aaral kasi sanay na kami na nandun para sa isat-isa. But at the same time I also want to chase big opportunities sa cebu. Can you guys help me? please give me an advice.