u/Quirky-Television650

So for context my friends family is very homophobic, as of recent she has asked me (who is gay) to come over for a party, my issue is that she is wishing for me to change my appearance to look more straight, it was originally a simple thing but now it has blown up in my face and it has gotten very out of hand and we've had a lot of disagreements since then, I'm just looking for any general interpretation for guidance, thanks!