I'm trying to post here anonymously, because I know my SMs and several senior booksellers read here.
Lately at our store things have soured. I love working at Barnes and Noble. I love my fellow booksellers, working with people, and I'm obsessed with books.
But things are bad. Customers are rarely in a good mood, and take things out on our booksellers. And it feels like we have no recourse - we're just supposed to stand there and take it like good little boys and girls. I've been cussed at, ignored, talked over, and hung up on by customers lately, and when I report it to anyone in charge I'm not really given support. I'm just expected to maintain my cheery demeanor and keep going even though I want to cry most of the time these things happen to me.
Then there are my fellow booksellers. I love working with everyone - most of the time. But there are times that some booksellers display a great deal of passive-aggression. Tossing books with violence onto the tables, rolling their eyes when I ask for help with something. A perfect example is when a senior bookseller came in recently, passed me on their way to the break room, and straight up ignored me when I greeted them. It feels icky, even if it's not personal. I felt disrespected. It would be one thing if this behavior was only once or twice, but it's consistent, and across the board from multiple booksellers.
Our SM is also fairly mercurial. We know when they're in a bad mood, the whole store can feel it, and we try to evade them when this happens. They tend to nitpick on us about the smallest things, and nothing we do is right or seems to appease them. It feels really shitty to be given consistent negative, not even constructive just plain negative, feedback constantly.
Our SM recently pulled us aside to remind us that we are expected to maintain a good attitude and professional behavior, but all I wanted to do was ask if they were beholden to the same standards, as much of the problem is their own attitude. It's one thing if customers abuse us and make us feel like we're incompetent, but it feels like it's coming from all sides. We're also stretched incredibly thin, expected to keep standards up while being bombarded by tasks that are impossible to complete in the time we're allotted, while giving customers our undivided priority.
I'm surprised it's gotten this bad. It makes me dread coming to work. I used to love my job, and I am hopeful this is just a blip, and that it will pass soon, but for the first time in 6 years I'm really contemplating quitting.
TLDR; Customers, SM, and Senior Booksellers all have negative attitudes that are pulling the rest of the store down. Feel underappreciated and overwhelmed. Used to love the job, really hopeful this will change, but afraid if not I might have to suck it up and find somewhere else to work. and I really don't want to leave. ;_;