29 M, living separately from wife since 2 months. Troubled marriage of 2 years (17th Feb, 2024). Is Divorce Imminent? Also having doubt regarding future career and wealth creation prospects
Living separately from wife since Feb 2026. Had an arranged marriage setup with majority of the Gunn matching (around 27 out of 36 Gunn matching as per pandit). Had good tuning initially but around the time of marriage started witnessing little bit of narcissistic and controlling behaviour of fiance, which I gave benefit of doubt as possessiveness or initial hiccups during knowing a person. Post marriage it amplified after initial argument with my mother and although we switched our residential city to stay away from parents to focus on job and career.
Her nature of remembering past things didn't let her move on and couldn't accept my family with constant comparisons to her family. Later, more behaviourial patterns started coming into picture like extreme love bombing and extreme anger issues (emotions swinging in extremes). I also had problems establishing boundaries in the relationship and as a result even stopped talking to my own parents for past arguments. Still things didn't improve and she left our rented house in Pune on Feb 2026 for a WhatsApp group that my father added me into without realising she herself was not part of it.
Add to that zero progress or growth in the last 2 years in my career. My question is, is divorce imminent? as the problem has stretched at families level now, with both side parents not interacting. I know I loved her a lot but can't say the same for her as the emotions were so extreme that I started doubting my own sense of reality at times.
Was my marriage always going to turn up like this because of my chart?
Please help.
P.S. Reposted with Wife's chart and wealth doubt.