Can I save my marriage after a 2.5 yr affair?
Can I save my marriage after a 2.5 year affair after I physically and emotionally cheated on my wife during our wedding, miscarriage, daughter’s birth, and her postpartum depression. I cut all ties with AP and haven’t spoke or seen her. I am in therapy to prevent this from happening again. I feel as though my marriage is going to end in divorce and idk how to save it. I regret my actions and full accountability for them. I do my best not upset my wife and I told her take all the time in the world to heal and talk with others about it. I gave up all intimacy with her so she could feel safe and not feel dirty after it. She has full access to my phone. I would literally do anything to save my marriage and my family. She told me she hasn’t decided to fully reconcile or leave. I know she contacted a divorce attorney to see her options but hasn’t told me. I fear my marriage is over. I’m scared, anxious, stressed and fear the worst. Any advice will help. Idk what else to do!