Drinking with a late period
I am currently 8 months postpartum after having my 1st and my period since i had my kid has been LIKE CLOCKWORK. i always start my period exactly 3 weeks and 2 days after my last period ends. Well its been 3 weeks and 5 days since i got my last period and i havent been late since the last time my husband and we found out we were pregnant. this is where the issue comes in. i have had plans to go out with my friends for over a month (we have to plan very far in advance bc my schedule highly differs from theirs and i work about 60 hrs a week most weeks) with my period being late i've decided i wont be taking a test and i will still go out tn and drink with my friends as planned i havent told them about my period being late and i wont take a test until after i get home. does that make me selfish? does that immediately classify me as a bad mom? i didnt drink at all any time i was pregnant with my first the last time i had drank until postpartum was the night my son was conceived so i didnt have to worry about anything like this with my first.