Advice on my situation regarding baptism
So I come from a vaguely evangelical upbringing. In the past few months I have been convinced of Lutheranism. I am Lutheran now.
Unfortunately, I can't have a home church because the nearest church is very difficult to get to both financially and geographically. It does bother me that I can't be officially confirmed into the Lutheran church but it's not as big of a concern to me right now as baptism is.
I'm not baptized yet, this is the problem with "believer’s baptism". Since it's just a symbol and you need to decide on your own, you get situations like mine. Now that I am convinced of the power behind baptism I want to get baptized, but like I said there is no church near me.
In your opinion what should I do? I know that it's not the man that is the baptizer but Jesus, so if I get baptized in a baptist, reformed, or whatever church it doesn't become invalid just because they believe differently.
Is it better to delay it and wait until I can physically go to a Lutheran church in a few months? Or should I answer what The Holy Spirit has put in my heart, an urge to get baptized? Even if it's from a different tradition?
(Bonus question, can women baptize? I know that the LCMS and most conservative Lutheran bodies are against women's ordination, but does that have anything to do with baptism? Genuine question)