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The Japanese rule of not walking and eating is fairly new an more nuanced then you think

“Don’t eat while walking in Japan” is a relatively new Tokyo norm, not a long standing cultural rule. Nonetheless, it should be respected.

I recall living in Japan in the early 90s and seeing retirees on the train drinking a cup of sake or young people on the weekend coming home from a late night and drinking a beer on the train. I even use to see Japanese snacking and n the train or walking back to work eating skewers of yakitori. So I asked my Japanese wife if there has always been the rule of no drinking and eating in public?

For some additional context…my wife grew up in Tokyo in the 70’s/80’s and part of the 90’s before moving to the U.S. and she said that my memory is correct. Up through the 90s and even early 2000s, Japanese people generally didn’t care if others were eating or drinking while walking around in public. According to her, the big shift came after public trash cans started disappearing following the 1995 sarin gas attack, combined with the huge rise in foreign tourism.

Once trash cans disappeared, there was more concern about litter being left around, especially in crowded areas. As tourism increased, many visitors would leave cups, wrappers, skewers, etc. in public spaces, and Japanese society gradually responded by discouraging eating while walking altogether. Less because it was “traditional etiquette” and more because people didn’t want public spaces becoming messy. What’s interesting, and I think this is a helpful travel tip for first time visitors, is that you still see plenty of exceptions:

festivals

street food areas

Harajuku crepes

people drinking vending machine drinks while walking

So it feels less like “never eat while walking” and more like “don’t inconvenience others or create trash in crowded spaces.”

Curious whether other longtime Tokyo residents remember the same cultural shift.

For foreign visitors who aren’t sure, the best policy is to just do as you see the Japanese do.

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u/Personal_Dot_7196 — 2 days ago

Word of Caution: Do not rely on TikTok, Instagram, or social media influencers to build your itinerary for restaurants, bars, or clubs in Japan, especially in cities like Tokyo.

Take it from someone who has traveled there frequently over the last 35 years from the states with my Japanese wife, the places that dominate social media feeds are no longer representative of the authentic local experience. Once a location goes viral, it often becomes overcrowded with tourists, long lines, inflated hype, and an atmosphere that can feel more like an extension of the United States or Europe than Japan itself. Moreover, an influencer might truly believe a place is the “best in Tokyo”, (based on their ver limited knowledge) when in reality, there are are many other places that are not only better, but much less expensive because they aren’t charging inflated tourist prices.

Some of the best food and nightlife experiences in Japan are found in tiny neighborhood establishments tucked away in residential areas, places with little or no social media presence, no English signage, and no influencers filming reaction videos outside. Instead of chasing viral spots, leave room for spontaneity. Wander into local neighborhoods, observe where Japanese residents are eating and drinking, and trust your instincts. In Japan, even an unassuming ramen shop down a side street can easily outperform the heavily promoted “must visit” locations trending online. If my wife sees a long line filled with westerners, she makes avoid it like the plague, and she is seldom wrong.

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u/Personal_Dot_7196 — 3 days ago