Should I get over it will it pass?
I hope this is in the right category I apologize if not.
I have caught feelings for an aromantic person.
I do not know what type of aromantic but they have described it as they are a ball of horniness they just despise people. So I assume they feel sexual attraction just not much of any romantic. They also have dated someone in the past but I don't know if that's before they realized they were aromantic.
I will say I did not become friends with them with the intent to date.
I have known this person for about two years now they joined in our group and we did a full year of DND (dungeons and dragons) online the table top not the online mmo.
After the DND campaign ended we went our separate ways for a couple months and we have gotten into another DND campaign and I started to realize the more time we had spent together the more I had grew to like them and the feelings grew romantic.
Now we have had constant contact everyday unless an incident has happened. We usually spend time in discord talking, watching shows together and playing video games as well as having another DND campaign for about 7-8 months and the feelings have not gone away.
Now I really enjoy their company but I find myself sad more frequently because I don't want to ruin what we have but the potential to be more eats at me time to time.I do not expect to make them suddenly have feelings if they don't and I do not know how aromantic people think. These are all my thoughts I don't believe they know I have romantic feelings and if they do it has not been spoken of.
Now my question is should I just keep it quiet or should I tell them? How common is it to lose aromantic friendship over telling them you have feelings?
This is my first time in this situation and I have absolutely no idea on what I should do I. Should I push my feelings down and hope they fade should I tell them and risk it?