genuine concern
hey guys im probably going to be downvoted for this bc whenever you disagree with the cult mentality on here thats what happens but i literally dgaf. i am not in any way shape or form “defending” the influencers you discuss on here, i just think that sometimes you guys take it too far.
yes. i’m aware it’s a snark page. yes. i am aware that the point of a snark page is to gossip. yes im aware that some of these influencers are problematic but omg. the constant escort allegations with no solid proof (which is lowkey misogynistic), the deep dives into the same people again and again, the lowkey classist/racist comments (like the rhetoric that moroccan women who are doing well for themselves are escorts and no, i’m not moroccan), the constant digs at people’s looks and the way you guys are okay with just trash talking people you dont even know like that is very much ……… out of touch with reality. like don’t you have a shred of empathy? genuinely what have these people done to you personally??? because i promise you, you wouldn’t say this to their faces. otherwise you’d make a video about it and tag them instead of typing behind an anonymous account. no shade. and before you accuse me - no i am not an influencer. and yes ive heard every single accusation in the book when a person has a conscience. all of a sudden its “you must be xyz” and “why are you defending them so bad” like ugh
then if that person goes and harms themselves all of you will be asking what happened and acting like you care and saying "الله يرحمها/يرحمه 💔🕊️" as if you weren’t making and joining in on rumours about them.
and yes. most of them are messy and problematic and racist and just weirdos (and again i’m not defending that) but even though they share their life online, its not your right to know or go looking for every single tiny detail about them. leave people alone! and okay maybe some of them have had terrible pasts idk but why do you keep bringing it up? are we not supposed to conceal our past sins? you’re in no position to be moral judges. at first it was fun and exciting but now it’s turning into borderline harassment and bullying. you shouldn’t feel comfortable discussing someone’s personal life online when you don’t even know them. sure discuss what they show you on social media. but when you start bringing in their families, their kids etc… it starts getting to a point.
EDIT: the problem with this subreddit is that no matter what angle you try people truly find an issue with everything. you try and ask people to be empathetic and all of a sudden you’re preaching, or you’re one of the girls they gossip about in the snark pages. what happened to empathy being a human trait? anyway a lot of you are sour, bitter, deeply unhappy individuals hopefully you heal and seek help instead of being so invested in a random persons life
#STAYMAD