I hate the name Rebecca so much
So my whole childhood I was taunted by that name cause my dads mistress was named Rebecca and yes my mom was a weakling and kept ‘forgiving him’ and Rebecca remained a cause for severe fights for so many years. Plus she was also stalking us. Kept calling to our home to fight with my mom. Oh and all of my dads money went to ‘Rebecca’. My mom was working day and night to just pay for our bills while my dad was having endless ‘businesstrips’ but always being broke. When my mom finally had the courage to leave, well my dad married Rebecca. And had a new family with her.
I know it’s not logical, but the name always triggered me since then.
Flashforward I get married and caught my (ex)husband cheating with a woman named REBECCA. The worst part of the betrayel wasnt even the cheating for me, it was the name. He knew how triggering that name was to me, I told him about my childhood trauma’s. I remember when finding out I was crying and screaming: Seriously couldnt you at least have chosen another name. Plottwist: he also marries her after our divorce.
I know you guys will judge and think its childish and maybe it is, but I cant help it. Im traumatised by that name.
Well my dad divorced from Rebecca a long time ago. I just got off the phone with him and the reason I am even writing this right now is cause he told me he met someone else and it’s getting serious AND HER NAME IS FREAKING REBECCA.
I just have no idea why this keeps happening and I wish this was ragebait. Unfortunately it is not!
Also sorry for my bad english, its not my first language and I am not in the mood to let AI correct my spelling.
Thank you for your time reading this, except if your name is Rebecca.