People ask really weird dating questions on this app.
I usually scroll past the “why can’t I get a girlfriend” or “why are men like this” type of posts but I was just curious lol, so I clicked on a post and OP literally asked why women want to be attracted to the men they want to date….
Bc I guess he was upset that no woman would give him a chance if they weren’t attracted to him and like…well, yea? Like you want to date someone who made it obvious they’re not attracted to you?? I’m still not entirely sure what he was upset about lol.
Idk it’s just whenever I read posts like this from either gender it’s like there’s this underlying resentment that they can’t force the ppl they’re attracted to, to be attracted to them and like…once again I’m not sure what they’re upset about bc that’s not how the real world works. It’s almost like they feel like if they enter the right code, and say the right things or look the right way, the person they want will just fall into their laps. And when it inevitably doesn’t happen, they get super angry at themselves or angry at the world like they have been the victim of some massive injustice.
I’ve only met someone irl like this once in college but online it seems like a lot of folks feel this way but I don’t know.