u/PSB22

This guy I’m dating told me after a few weeks of dating that he’s going to visit a “friend” in Italy from Pa who he had a fling with years ago who recently got married. I feel very uncomfortable with this and it seems very odd that he’s going for a month to visit an old flame and her new husband. In my 55 years I’ve never heard of anything like this and I don’t visit old boyfriends. Why would he be dating only to tell the potential gf that he’s going away to visit another woman and her new husband?? I really like him and we have a great connection but this recent detail doesn’t sit well with me at all.

Is this a sign to run?

Please give feedback. TIA

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