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When do you actually feel settled?
We’ve been in our first home for a month after being in a rental that I loved dearly for 6 years. When does this start to feel less temporary and more like home? I just keep thinking “ehh it’s okay we’ll make it work for now”.
I should also add in I’m four months postpartum and I’ve been struggling with severe PPA and PPD the last few months as well so I’m not sure if that is playing a roll.
Shouldn’t this be some big grand love story? What we’ve all been waiting for? When do I stop comparing it to our rental? There’s a lot of good things about the house but also a lot that I don’t love and our lease was up so we jumped to be walking distance to the kids school. But I just don’t feel like this is IT, if that makes sense.
u/Own-Condition-904 — 22 hours ago