u/Ornery_List4089

i never thought i'd be making a post ranting about two things, but here i am!

i want to first rant about people asking for age, on one hand, i could understand why they would ask it, but on the other it's just flat out stupid, if they want a server to only be set for a certain group of people such as kids or adults, they should make a private server to begin with, and have their friends join them, because i personally do not feel comfortable saying my age to random people i have just met, (unless if it is mandatory and in private!) if they want to do a server for either children or adults, make a private server for that, and don't make a public, because anyone can join in public servers no matter the age,

the second thing i want to rant about is people kicking you for stupid reasons, the first instance is when i joined a murder mystery game, and the owner of that server set up a rules on the wall which i didn't see at first, i was only hiding from the murderer not exploiting anything, just sitting in a room in a corner and this owner kicks me for "cheating", which i wasn't to begin with! another instance that happened just now is what i believe is the stupidest reasons to be kicked, me being allegedly being invisible, when my avatar was not invisible, this was on a hangout room server, my avatar i had found publicly was a 2d avatar that i thought was cool, but when i joined and because of they weren't able to see my avatar (possibly because of their avatar settings but idk), instead of talking to me about it and ask me to change my avatar, they instant kicked me, and i think that they could have handled it differently

i try to reason with these types of people trying to come up with a compromise but they would rather flat out ignore me or just be rude towards me when i'm just trying to enjoy myself! i just find it really annoying at times