Empathy building
What are some ways to be more empathetic to clients and to be able to actually communicate empathy better? Obviously it doesn’t come natural since I didn’t grow up with empathetic parents and I’ve don’t my own work around that. I think some of my clients think I just don’t get it or dont understand their problems when I do get it but I can’t seem to always find the words in the moment. I also do EMDR sometimes and need to be more attuned to clients as I tend to miss things. I later think about the session and realize what I didn’t do and can be hard on myself about it. Any suggestions or books I can read or ways to communicate better would be great. I’ve been doing this almost 10 years and it gets harder for me as I get older. TIA