u/Ok_Influence8932

My boyfriend and I are fostering his three year old grandchildren. They are twins. I have rules set that food and drinks stay at the table and toys can be played with in their bedroom. They need reminders, but are good about following the rules when I am home. I went away last night for a work conference, and my boyfriend and his daughter had the kids. I came home to find they had been given markers and had drawn all over themselves. I also found crumbs all over my couch and yogurt all over their bedroom. Is it really too much to ask for them to be watched and the house be somewhat kept in order?