Am I selfish for being mad at my two friends who are dating for flirting the entire time we were supposed to be calling for my birthday?
Hi, I have these two friends. We were all friends before they started dating. We go on calls every week. However, recently, every time we call they just flirt the whole time. I ignored it at first as I figured maybe they were just in some kind of honeymoon phase for lack of a better term. Yesterday, we were all going on a call for my birthday which I was very excited about. But once everyone was in the call they just decided to flirt the entire time and ignore me. I was getting pretty upset as I've been having a rough time recently (with just life stuff) and I wanted to be able to celebrate. I thought "oh well maybe they forgot" so I kept subtly mentioning that it was my birthday. They brushed it off and kept flirting. Neither of them even said happy birthday. I feel selfish for it cuz they're a couple so ofc they're gonna flirt, but I don't wanna be a third wheel and feel ignored on a day that was supposed to be about me. Sorry if this was hard to read I have trouble expressing this kind of stuff