u/No_time_yo

Hello, my girlfriend is about start the academy here and she is being sponsored by the local PD so she’s already signed her commitment papers/contract provided she passes. I’ve never known anyone that worked LE and I want to be as supportive of her as I can and I’m proud she’s come so far despite very difficult life circumstances. A couple of questions:

1. How can I be a supportive boyfriend/husband? We are planning on getting married in the next few years.

2. Can you think of anything you wish your partner/spouse had done for you or been better at when you started?

3. Can you think of any harsh truths or realities about our upcoming life that maybe aren’t so obvious?

4. I had someone tell me that she may have a difficult time specifically because she’s a mother and is very attractive. I don’t really understand why that would make things more difficult for her but I would like to hear someone else’s perspective.

Thank you!

Hello, my girlfriend is about start the academy here and she is being sponsored by the local PD so she’s already signed her commitment papers/contract provided she passes. I’ve never known anyone that worked LE and I want to be as supportive of her as I can and I’m proud she’s come so far despite very difficult life circumstances. A couple of questions:

1. How can I be a supportive boyfriend/husband? We are planning on getting married in the next few years.

2. Can you think of anything you wish your partner/spouse had done for you or been better at when you started?

3. Can you think of any harsh truths or realities about our upcoming life that maybe aren’t so obvious?

4. I had someone tell me that she may have a difficult time specifically because she’s a mother and is very attractive. I don’t really understand why that would make things more difficult for her but I would like to hear someone else’s perspective.

Thank you!