u/No_Ruin_7037

My husband (25m) and I (24f) have been together for almost 7 and a half years. He confessed to me last night that he has these intrusive thoughts that he doesn’t want to have. Like he sees some one and wants to have sex with them. Or randomly thinks about cheating. My mind is telling me to divorce him (there are other reasons) while my heart wants to hold on but idk how to get past this specifically. I really need some advice. I’m sick to my stomach and I can’t move on.

Ps. I’m not sure if this is relevant but I am also 3 months postpartum with our first baby.