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A Blow in the Air

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u/No_Quarter1339 — 1 day ago

My manager is trying to gaslight me about my job title, but I have proof in an email. What should I do now?

I had a meeting with my manager a few weeks ago to discuss a salary increase.
Today, while we were following up on the matter, she told me: "I don't understand where you got the impression that you are the Office Manager." She simply told me that this was never my title.
I was very confused and told her that my email signature, which she sees several times a day, has said "Office Manager" for over a year. She then claimed she didn't know who put that there and that she never approved it.
At that moment, she was just throwing all this at me. So basically, she's implying that the work I've been doing for a year isn't my actual job? I was shocked and didn't know what to say.
But when I got back to my desk, I did a quick search. I found the email from last year where I was asked directly what my title was for the company directory, and she replied to the whole team: "Office Manager."
I've decided I'm leaving. I'm going to update my CV tonight and start looking for a job immediately.
But my question is, should I forward her that email? Part of me really wants to, just to show her where this 'impression' came from. But another part feels it's a waste of my time and effort.
The way she handled the whole situation was terrible.
She also admitted that she wanted to bring this up with me six months ago but didn't because she hates confrontation. What kind of nonsense is that?
I'm really struggling to process all of this. Any advice on how to handle this situation?

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u/No_Quarter1339 — 1 day ago