u/No-University-324

My manager left 5 months ago, and I've been doing their job without an official promotion or raise, and now they told me I'm getting neither. I need advice.

My manager left 5 months ago, and I've been doing their job without an official promotion or raise, and now they told me I'm getting neither. I need advice.

At first, I was told this was a trial period. Basically, they wanted to make sure I could handle the role for 4 months before anything became official. Honestly, at the beginning, I didn't have a big problem with that. Work can be weird like that sometimes.

They just told me that in the next review cycle, I won't be getting the title or the pay bump because I'm "not there yet." I could have accepted that if they were saying I didn't get the position. But they still want me to keep doing the same work, in this extended "trial" setup, with the same title and the same salary.

I think I'm doing good work. I'm definitely my own harshest critic, but I'm handling the responsibilities they gave me, and I also pushed through a few side projects that I came up with myself, got signed off, and leadership seemed happy with them.

At this point, I decided I don't want to continue in a place that clearly doesn't value the work I'm doing. Instead, I'm going to start applying to some of the opportunities I had saved before and focus my energy on companies that are more transparent about growth and compensation. I already have a few interviews lined up, and this time I'm preparing differently too. I've been doing mock interviews with my friend and I’m planning to try InterviewMan tool during interviews to help me explain my experience more confidently, communicate my value better, and handle salary discussions professionally.

Is this sketchy? Or is this something companies normally do? Honestly, I'm really upset, even though I genuinely like the work itself.

u/No-University-324 — 4 days ago

Hi. I'm 20 years old. My dad is dying. He's in the hospital right now, barely hanging on to life. The doctors said there's nothing else they can do, so now it's all about keeping him comfortable and letting him go peacefully.

He has taken care of me and my sister for as long as I can remember. He always made sure we had food, the bills were paid, and we had a safe place to sleep, even if it meant wearing himself down completely. Now that he won't be here anymore, I feel completely lost. Honestly, I thought I'd have more time to get things together.

My sister and I are planning to stay together. We've talked about getting jobs that pay more and trying to split the rent for our apartment, but I have no idea whether that will work long-term or not. We have some relatives we could stay with for a while, but that won't be a permanent solution. And we don't have any savings.

I had a simple plan before all of this. I was going to take some time, get my license, then start studying and work toward getting into something in healthcare. Now I feel like everything has been turned upside down and I don't know what the first step is supposed to be.

For a long time, I've been telling myself that I don't know what my future looks like, and that I don't care because I'm just dealing with today. But I can't keep living like that if I want to get through this and build a real life.

What do I do now?

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u/No-University-324 — 8 days ago