Think my Ex is faking a pregnancy
Buckle up, cause this is a long one. So I dated this girl from December to early March. Things were good until they weren’t. We broke up because I couldn’t get over her past(found out she was with a lot more people than myself). Still very much cared for her and wish her the best. Deep down she is a sweet person. Or so I thought. During the breakup and the proceeding month and a half, I had to “break up” with her 3 different times. She spammed my phone frequently sending me long emotional messages and called me weak and said I needed to mature. Lots of things. She wanted to meet up to say our goodbyes/exchange things(we both didn’t have a lot of stuff at each other houses) multiple times. I said it’s a bad idea and I would be happy to mail her things to her and that she can throw away mine. This eventually progressed into me going no contact for about 3 weeks and she would still text me about every other day or so. Things calmed down and she didn’t reach out for a week. She texts me saying she needed a favor from me. I asked what it was and she said she wanted me to go to a wedding out of town with her because “she didn’t feel safe going alone”. I said it’s a bad idea because what do you think will happen? It would rehash everything and we’d both be starting from ground zero. Anywho I don’t respond because well, we’ve been broken up for a month. She texts me the next day saying “pleeeeeassseee” and that we can just go as friends and she’ll even get me a separate hotel room. And “we can just go then you’ll never have to see me again it’ll be fine loll”. I thought that was silly and to be real I was a bit offended to I ignored the message. The next day she texts me saying she is pregnant. This news was very strange to me considering the last time we had sex(and she was on birth control) she had a period 1 or 2 days later. She said she’ll just deal with it alone like per usual and that I’m a POS and she’s really freaked out how I’m being so inconsiderate ignoring her. I obviously engaged and asked her logistical questions. Asked when she found out, hey she thinks that, etc.. We have gone back and forth essentially playing chess with our words and I asked her to send me a picture of the test. She said it was verrrry faint for 3 days in a row and she thinks it’s a chemical/miscarriage and she shouldn’t have even told me. I saw picture of all 3 and they are quite faint and not getting darker. I told her I’m going with her to the OB. To see what’s going on. She sent me her OBs address and it wasn’t a real OB. She said she called and they’ll call her back. I sent her a few different places,including free clinic, and she kept being super dodgy and giving excuses as to why she couldn’t get an appointment ASAP and it would have to be 2 weeks from now. I said no worries we’ll go to an ultrasound place this weekend and I’ll pay for it I can book an appointment right now. Long story short she said she is now going to the wedding(that she told me she wasn’t going to 3 days ago) and that it wouldn’t work for her schedule. We have an appointment booked at a pregnancy clinic close to her house to see the ultra sound on Thursday. I’m worried, it obviously could be mine and I am happy to step up to the plate and be present in this child’s life but based on her behavior and the escalation of everything idk if she’s just doing some last ditch effort to stay connected. Or maybe it’s someone else’s(she told me she moved on quick from her last relationship) and she’s trying to pin it on me. I don’t know I’m a bit shook up but the weirdest part is the last time we had sex was Feb 28 and it was April 15 when this all happened. The tests would read much more visibly pregnant at this point. I’m trying to figure out if she’s telling the truth. All of her behavior has led up to this point in escalation and I’m someone concerned she’s very unstable. I know this is out of left field but something in my gut is telling me something’s not adding up. I obviously left out all the little details, be aware that they all are leading me to believe something is up. She is now avoiding conversations with me after begging me to talk to her. It’s all very strange to me. Any help or advice from someone who’s been through a similar situation would be awesome.